Friday, November 06, 2009
One of Those Days
ever had one of those days where nothing really went wrong but you're just feeling so grumpy and moody and somehow your hair's not going right and you just feel like staying under the covers the whole day?
I'm having one of those days and nothing seems to be lifting my spirits.It's not just today, every other day has been just blah and shades of blue and grey.
I'm off to fix that with some coke and chocolate.and maybe a good movie or two.
laterrrr!
SCANdalous//*
10:33 PM
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Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Running, and holding on so dearly
Sometimes things get out of hand, words which shouldn't have been mentioned are throw in a blur of anger and maybe, to spite the other. Sometmes we don't mean half the things done or said. Sometimes our insecurity and paranoia get the better of us and we become these people we've never been before and perhaps, never wanted to be. Nobody ever starts out ugly, circumstances amongst others rub off us in a wrong way and without us realising it, with the lack of self-control, we somehow get there; hating who we've become.
I'm almost there.
And that's when i wonder whether maybe i'm fooling myself, or we're just trying to convince ourselves that we're happy such.Putting on a fake smile, a brave front; why the facade? If i could not resort to that measure just because i wouln't want to cause hurt, why couldn't you? Maybe that's where i should draw the line and start putting my needs before yours or anybody else's for that matter. Selfish as it sounds, that's probably the only way we'd get by and maybe, be happier people.
maybe.
SCANdalous//*
12:42 AM
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Thursday, October 22, 2009
When Nothing Ever Seems Absolute
Russell Peters definitely knew what he was talking about when he said women think alot. We think so much and pretty much even while we sleep, it's freaky. No, really. See that's what happens with me. I'm as woman/girl as a woman/girl can get and i definitely do think alot and my mind travels distances that amaze me at times and voila, i end up at this page to go clacketty clack at the keyboard. I haven't been doing so for a while now, but that don't mean the mind's been at ease. oh hell no, haha! I've just not been comfortable enough to put down those thoughts here onto this virtual space. Call it selfish but i'm weird that way. I've never been ENTIRELY okay with baring my heart and soul (ugh) and no, i don't find it hypocritical or hiding my true-self. I guess that's just my way of protecting myself. I'm really through putting myself out there and living for the moment has taken its toll on me.
See it all just nags at me incessantly when almost everything changes into gray matter.What's black and white anymore? what's absolute anymore? Has it really come to a situation whereby something that is outrightedly NOT okay is deemed,well, okaaay, just because one chooses to see it as such? Then what's right or wrong anymore?Is betrayal okay just because the accused has done some pretty noble deeds to repent and the victim's pacified by it? Does that change the fact it happened?
As much as we're entitle to our own opinions, i think we're all just giving too much regard to the effect our words may have on the general public and end up ALL sounding politically correct. And that eventually leads to a whole big mess off gray matter. Pretty soon, one would probably even be able to get away with murder, just because.
Pfft.
SCANdalous//*
2:59 AM
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Tuesday, October 06, 2009
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY OKTOBERRRRR BABIES :)
love you guys(and my gossip girls) longessst time.xx
love you guys(and my gossip girls) longessst time.xx
SCANdalous//*
2:25 AM
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Thursday, October 01, 2009
".... you sacrifice the needs of your own ego for the needs of the relationship; in this way two become one....."
- Joe Campbell 
And somehow, it feels right. It may not work out, it may not live up to my expections but it makes me smile, makes my day(well, most days if not all) and its made me look at many things in a different way.
For that, i'm thankful(in a funny sorta way).
SCANdalous//*
2:59 AM
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Sunday, September 27, 2009
Sundays are so BLAHHHHHH!
Hence i'm updating.hehe.
I had quite a wonderful Saturday night with the mates. From waiting and waiting for the guys to finally arrive and dinner and the enormous mudpies at coffeeclub which paul said would be rather small sized and LAN gaming!haha. Who knew we'd end up gaming our saturday night away!
I really REALLY need to get myself a little organiser. I keep forgetting dates planned and there's just so much to do and attend to. What happened to my days of making TO-DO lists?geez.
Of late, i've been looking at lotsa things in a very cynical way, so much so that it's beginning to scare me.no really. I look at A and B and at the back of my mind i'm easily scoffing at the idea of it all.Not good at all. Me thinks its nearing that time of the month.urgh, i hate moodswings.
Lotsa stuff to get done. The driving HAS to be confirmed and finalised by the end of this week or my dad's really gonna blow his top and i've gotta get the uni applications going going and gone.sucha hassle. you'd think you were applying for the president's post or something.boo.
i miss my boy =/
ok bye.
SCANdalous//*
10:01 PM
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Saturday, September 26, 2009
Updates galore!
It's been quite an eventful one week(?) since i updated, rather exhausting one too i daresay and in a way i'm a tad bit thankful. That's what life's lessons do to you no? They not only leave you feeling enlightened at the end of it all but also thankful in a funny sorta way.
Life's very pretty at the moment here on the flipside, the grass so green, the flowers so colourful and yea, smiles everywhere. sounds too good to be true but i'm relishing in every moment `cause you never know when it's gnna rain. ok i'm sounding very gay, i know!haha.
So september's up and it was a wonderful month. Birthday months are always wonderful aren't they? Momma's birthday passed recently too, she's 51 now geez! next up it's october and i have a feeling i'm gnna go so darn broke in october. The boy's 21st along with vimal's 22nd and not forgetting steph's and indra's 20th after ravin's 20th. egaddd! Like sanjay said, october would have been a good month to head outta singas!HAHA.
Okay i'm running late for tuition now, have a great week ahead loves! :)
SCANdalous//*
3:14 PM
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